温和

moderate; gentle; mild; temperate; mellow; genial; amiable; balmy; easy-going; soft; tender; silken; placid; lukewarm; mild-mannered; clement; moderation; mildness; gentleness; temperateness; mollify; temper; soften; gently; mildly; temperately; moderately; softly

手段

means; method; way; measure; agent; avenue; channel; approach; instrument; vehicle; gateway; passport; medium; tactic; strategy; technique; device; finesse; ability

对待

treat; deal with; handle; regard; approach; treatment; attitude; usage; reception

某人

someone; person; history; little bird; some; certain; somebody