And Li Yinan always is leisurely, with excuse oneself from of a word: talk about Aladdin only today, talk about future only, do not talk about the past.

而李一男总是慢条斯理，以一句话婉拒：今天只谈阿拉丁，只谈未来，不谈过去。

To excuse oneself before there is occasion is to accuse oneself. To draw blood in full health gives the hint to ill will. An excuse unexpected arouses suspicion from its slumbers.

在有必要辩解之前就为自己辩解，其实就是在控告自己。在完全健康的时候放血，就等于暗示自己有病。一次意料之外的申辩，会唤醒原本沉睡的怀疑。

You are in abuse other when, ask oneself mitzvah excuse me.

你在辱骂他人的时候，请问问自己的德行。

But is lets oneself look for an excuse, does not leave.

而是让自己找个借口，不离开。