Basically, they see you as a good listener, someone they can confide to.

他们把你当做一个好的倾听者，一个他们可以袒露心事的人。

I just exaggerate freedom and independence for being single when I confide to my friends.

跟朋友谈笑风生时，总夸张乱侃一个人自由，独立。