If you can't beat them, join them.

打不赢他们，就加入他们。

Some people say "If you can't beat them, join them".

有些人说“如果你不能打他，参入他们的团队”。

One day she just pulled him aside and she said, Arlen, you know what I always say -- "if you can't beat them, join them." (Laughter.)

一天，她把他拉到身边说，阿伦，你知道我有一句口头禅，“要是你打败不了他们，就跟他们入伙吧。”