Remember son, settle down, marry up.

儿子，你给我记住，稳定下来，结婚吧。

In a culture where women marry young and marry up, those who also want success for themselves frequently find that the deck is stacked against them

在一种女性应该嫁得早，嫁得好的社会文化中， 如果一个女子同时想要自己在事业上成功， 那么通常她们会发现婚姻的大门是关闭的。