So rather than feeling sorry for oneself, it is best to move on, and ask, now what? How will a photographer survive in todays world?

与其为一个人感到抱歉，我们最好能够往前看并且问「现在该怎麽办？摄影师该怎样生存于现代世界？」

'Sadly, this method of feeling sorry for oneself can very much exacerbate a situation and gives potential suitors a reason to stay away,' he said.

他说：“可悲的是，这种垂头丧气的方法非常可能使情况恶化，并让潜在的追求者远离你。”