I thought that our marriage would be 100% fair, completely diplomatic, and that all household duties would be split 50/50.

那时我认为我们的婚姻关系应该会100%公平，完全互惠互利，并且所有家务活都是对半平分。

But because they believe that their husbands are playing an important role as providers, they view the unequal work split as fair.

但因为相信自己的丈夫在感情的忠诚方面功勋卓著，所以不相等的工作量也被视为是平等的。