Learn to love with all your heart and accept the unlovable side of others.

学会用自己全部真心去爱一个人,去接受他(她)的那些不可爱的地方.

People who view themselves as unlovable find saying that they are so unbelievable that it strengthens their own negative view rather than reversing it.

自认为并不可爱的人会发现，说出那些连自己都不会相信的话，不仅不会扭转他们对自己的消极看法，反而会强化这种看法。

I mean, am I so unlovable?

我是说，我有这么不值得爱吗？

In the end she blamed herself for being unlovable.

最终她只能怪罪自己不讨人喜欢.

In the end she blamed herself for being unlovable .

最终她只能怪罪自己不讨人喜欢。

Becoming a master lover means you learn to love the unlovable.

成为主要爱人意味着你懂得去爱那些你不喜欢的人。

Have you ever been labeled as unlovable or something similar by your parents, a lover, or ex-lover?

你曾经被你的父母、爱人或前爱人贴上不讨人喜欢或类似的标签吗？

Because I know I am, and maybe a lot of you can think of a time when we're just pretty dadgum unlovable.

因为我知道我是如此，也许在座的各位也能想到曾经有某一个时刻，我们很不受人待见。