Love can create some pretty painful feelings.

爱能够创造一些十分痛苦的感受。

This can end up becoming a distorted view and can result in so many painful feelings when the feelings are not returned.

这种观点最后会被歪曲，当感受没有得到回报时会导致很多痛苦的感受。

How often do we not only accept, but even cherish our own tender spots and painful feelings ?

有多少次我们不仅接受，甚而珍爱我们自己的弱点和痛苦？

Such reactions reflect your own natural desire to protect him, and yourself, from painful feelings.

这种观点反映了你要保护他和你自己的远离痛苦的感受的天性。

At that time, the meditator will generally experience many different painful feelings arising in his body.

这时候, 禅者通常会经历很多不同的苦受,它们不断在身中生起.

They generally use overworking, overeating, or other addictions a way to numb their unresolved painful feelings.

他们通常会以过度工作 、 饮食或其他耽溺行为,来麻醉未解决的痛苦感觉.