我并不是想通过请吃饭来挑逗你。

I wouldn't seduce you over a meal.

在接受《纽约客》杂志采访时，她表示，“在确定你喜欢他之前让对方花几百甚至上千美元请吃饭很令人尴尬。”

She told The New Yorker that, It's awkward to have somebody spend hundreds and hundreds of dollars on dinner before you really know that you like him.

有多少次你对一个女性献尽殷勤，请吃饭啊，送礼物啊，赠鲜花啊，而她最后是否为了一个还没有你对她一半好的男人而拒绝了你？

How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her reject you for someone who didn't treat her even half as well as you did?