区别合乎道德的收养儿童与违法犯罪的拐骗儿童之间的分界线，往往在于孩子生母的态度，究竟是自愿放弃孩子还是被迫离开孩子。

The dividing line between an ethical adoption and a baby-buying scam generally falls on the issue of whether the birth mother has been coerced into giving up her child.